What do you want?

I had a customer in yesterday and it was rather frustrating for me. I asked her a number of questions about her hair and what she struggled with. She told me that her daughter didn’t like her hair. Ok, so what do you like? What is it that you want to do?

Her daughter didn’t like her hair and she is thinking of going back to short.

So I reiterated. What do you want? She doesn’t know. Urg! I haven’t figured out how to read minds yet so I have to rely on questions and the answers that people give me. Is it that the questions I ask aren’t clear enough? Is it my responsibility to know what others are thinking? What other questions should I ask? How long do I keep asking?

The same applies to you. If you have frustrations they stem from not being clear about what you want. It is easy to blame others for the gifts you receive. I bet if you told someone that you wanted some water that they would get it for you. Would you be mad at them if they brought it in a pail? From the drain pipes of your house? Toliet water? Do you see the dilemma? All you wanted was a GLASS of water. Being even more clear like stating that you want mineral water in a crystal goblet chilled in the freezer. Now that is clear.

How do you answer the question What do you want? I get stumped on this one. I want so many things that I hadn’t narrowed down WHICH one I want but when I do become clear boy do I ever get it!

I want to find people like you who are looking to improve their life. I want to help people like you to see that the only thing that blocks you is you. I want to find people like you who are willing to try. I want to find people who are willing to define their dreams and work on getting what they want. What do YOU want?

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