Happily Ever Before Increases Your Chances Of Happily Ever After.

I was sitting inside my salon looking out into the mountains that have fresh snow on the tips. Listening to music on a Thursday after noon.

After just sitting under the dryer and listening to the heat buzz around my head thoughts bounding around like a pinball machine.

Happily ever before increases your chances of happily ever after.

You must choose to be happy with your before so that you can be happy after. Odd that when they do make-overs the choice of picture is to be frowning. Gosh what a way to make the process even harder. Imagine if you actually liked yourself in the before  and then the after was even better. Seems  to me like a better ride on this twirling mass of earth.

My kitten is on my desk. Boca.. wee little purrs. My tweet little meower gives me a look of understanding helping all the while walking over my keyboard with his feet. “masdnfnapirput6q2″

Huh? Well, not to look at your before. Your past or right now. Two years from now you are here but in a different time. What would you be thinking about that very moment about this one. Will you regret it? Miss it? long for it? or praise yourself for having lived it?

I figured out that if you can decide that you will be grateful for NOW… no matter what happens.. Then you can do that for your past too. Up until now perhaps it wasn’t great, someone was mean, someone let you down. Will it matter? Two years from now will you still be holding on to that resentment and allow your life to be shackled by it? Or perhaps you can learn that lesson now and be grateful to have lived through it. Grateful that you have chosen to move on. To see the sun it all its brightness and joy or the fresh green of the leaves on trees. The blue sky that is always there behind the clouds. I can’t imagine being a pessimist ’cause dang that sucks..

Decide today that a few years from now that little thing that is irking you… doesn’t matter. Only the people you know matter and the ones you come to know are also important too. For now though be grateful that this moment exists just for you.

I wish for you a happy, wonder filled moment of bliss that just takes your baited breath and breathes new life into you .